Cleaning out a parent's possessions to move them to assisted living or to close up house after they have died is very painful and exhausting. There are so many of their memories, and some of yours, tied up in every little item.
Here is how I transformed a surprise discovery at the bottom of my mother's dresser to a family heirloom on my daughter's bed.
When I was packing up mom's things I found dozens of hankies with goodbye notes neatly folded and preserved under her lingerie. Apparently when my parents moved in the 40's my mother's friends gave her a hanky party. She had carefully saved them for 60 years!
I unwrapped, laundered, and ironed each one. Then I sewed them into a queen size quilts for my two daughters.
The older daughter got the fun, colorful ones in her quilt.